Finally, I decided to say what I thought was true for most marriages or, at least, what was true of ours.I was a little surprised (and relieved) at how quickly the other married people agreed with me. There may be an average amount, but no “normal.” I have seen surveys suggesting an average frequency of sex for married couples to be around a couple of times a month (once every 7-10 days).

The average response from women to this question was 25 minutes 51 seconds, while men were close behind with 25 minutes 43 seconds. Survey responses ranged from less than a minute to an hour, but the average bests are shown below.

A while back, I was having dinner with a group of friends.

I think most married couples struggle with this issue. That doesn’t mean that this is a number to aspire to or judge your marriage upon.

So let’s ask the question, “Do we have less sex than other married couples? What is normal and overwhelming are marriages with at least one partner who doesn’t think they are doing it enough.

In fact, this is the way MOST of my relationships have started.

But then, I’ve always been determined not to be hypocritical when a woman has the same lack of morals I do.

The problem occurs when couples resent one another and look out for themselves, rather than sacrificing.

When a couple has sex once in a several month time frame, it may indicate problems below the surface.

The key to a healthy sexual marriage is finding a frequency that works for both of you.